Sunday, May 25, 2014

Venting about ....

estranged people from the other side of the " family " ... if you were unfortunate enough to get stuck with that kind , you know the ones I'm talking about ,the ones that none of the family can stand .

Oh the things I could tell you about what was done ,ever have those times where you couldn't have a personal conversation with your husband without hearing the creaky floors at the in-laws house creaking to let you know that "it" and sometimes the mother, were listening and our "intimate times" were never private .??? WHY ??? Or how about having to guard your every possession because "it" always did the " five finger discount " . I cannot tell you how many times we "lost" items to "it" ,funny thing is once you got to know them ,they were the most suspicious and untrusting people you could ever meet , oh and did I mention there were two of them , yep twins and both equally fluent in lies , well maybe one more so than the other .

When our children were mistreated by "it" and the mother (now that's another whole can of worms)we realized enough was enough ...I'm sure it had everything to do with the fact that I am not Caucasian , karma has a way of fixing that ....
We put it all behind us years ago or so I thought ,but now with the internet well " it's baaaaack " I've noticed that "it" has been coming to visit me, perhaps "it" has no life or could it be because "it" has always been just plain nosey - re:creaky floors ,I've blocked "it" from facebook but "it" just keeps crawling back where it doesn't belong like a roach ... I'm sure when "it" reads this "it" won't be deterred , silly me how can I expect a " shameless thing " to understand that "it" is not wanted here , now or ever ?
“ Lord grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”
Blessings,

7 comments:

Yve said...

Hhhhmmm, family... sounds like we have similar problems, but just smile and pretend they aren't really related. Don't waste another thought on them and enjoy your life, enjoy what's left of the weekend and hugs to you. :o)

Flora said...

Ahhh Yve , you are right, I gave into a moment of weakness, it is what it is... it's good to hear from you and I'm so glad you stopped by !!! Blessings,Flora

Christel said...

Oh Flora, yes, I have had, and still sometimes do have those very same problems, my "it" is one of my siblings..a jealous, evil person, whom I do not have time for in my life. I might sound cruel, but the stories I could tell of the horrendous acts committed by my "it" are nightmarish, I am a happy person, and better for not having evil in my life! Tell this someone to leave you and your family the hell alone! You are a sweet, and kind person, you don't deserve to be harassed. xoxo Christel

Flora said...

Christel , that's is so sad about your sister , it takes lots of hard work to forgive been there done that ... No you don't sound cruel ,just sound like someone who's had enough.I hate when the uglies of the world force themselves in our lives .I can see the "it" play the victim to the family and because of selective memory it becomes " see what a horrible person Flora is !!!!" it doesn't matter anymore if I step on some faces...Blessings,Flora

Ms Peppercorn said...

I'm sorry that a beautiful person like you is made unhappy in this way. I wish I could make it go away forever.
Ms. Peppercorn

Ms Peppercorn said...

I`m sorry that a beautiful person like you has to be so unhappy. I wish I could make it go away.
Ms. Peppercorn

Flora said...

Hello again Mrs. Peppercorn, it has been way too long !!!! You are so kind , I knew I couldn't do it by myself so I have decided to give it all to the lord and let him take care of it. Not one single moment more will I allow to be taken from me by them. Thank you again , it's good to hear from you !!! Blessings,Flora